Monday, October 19, 2009

The End Of The Game?

I'm moving away from the small town I live in. I'm currently looking for a job in NY, DC, LA, San Diego, or San Fran. Though I'm excited about wherever I'm moving to, I will somewhat miss my "semi-girlfriend" - an MLTR I've been dating for over a year. I've invited her to come with me wherever I go, and if she does, she'll be my official "girlfriend" - monogamous, traditional, girlfriend.

Just read something on Johnny Wolf's site, he talked about "real sex vs pick up", thought it was a good read.
The other night I couldn't sleep, I kept thinking about all the girls I've hooked up with since joining the pick up artists community. After reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss, studying seduction, taking a bootcamp, and getting good enough to f-close consisantly, I started having more sex and with better quality women.

I ended up sleeping with girls that normally would have been out of my league, models, actresses, and the hot blondes I used to only fantasize about.

Game allowed me to sleep with girls I normally couldn't have, and also have sex with them sooner than ever, without ever taking them out on a real date. This is all sounds fun and trust me…it was. But thinking back, I can't remember the last time I slept with a girl that I actually cared about, and actually cared about me.

For those in the game: Learn the game, sleep with the superstars you always dreamed to have, and have fun. Fuck a couple hot blondes and get it out of your system. You deserve it, and if you don't you might regret it later on in life.

For those finishing the game: It's time for me to re-learn how to have real relationships and to sleep with girls that I actually care about. Even if it means I miss some opperunties to fuck the HB10, at this point in my life I'd rather make a geniune connection.

Just my rants and thoughts for the day,

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Taking A Book To The First Date

Just read something from a DC dating blogger, and he talked about a technique to take a book to the first date. This is a little more "Gamey" for my taste, but he made some excellent points on why you should take a book, especially when the date is less considerate or less feminine.

I stumbled on this next tip by accident. I had a date with a Polish
girl and something told me I wasn't going to go very well and that
I should bring some entertainment. I brought a book. Sure enough,
one hour after the date began, she told me it was time to end the
date because "We need to start slow, like in La Petit Prince." I
had my book with me so I ordered another drink and cracked it open.

Soon after I started taking a book with me to every date. First, it
serves as a great conversation starter that gets the date started
on an interesting tone. You can take it a step further by using it
to mold your image depending on the book you take. If the girl sees
you as a pensive intellectual, how about you take some literature?
If she sees you as an adventurer, maybe some sort of travel book.

Second and more importantly, taking a book discourages bad
behavior.

In D.C. I have been out with a lot of sassy and "in charge" girls
who can be a little aggressive and blunt without their words. When
I don't like what I'm hearing, all I have to do is reach for my
book, or just glance at it. She immediately gets the hint that if
she doesn't shape up I have other options. It's kind of a nuclear
option to get the exact type of behavior you want in a girl and
especially works well on overconfident girls (think lawyers).

One last perk of taking books is that it's no longer a big deal if
she's late. You'll remain apathetic and aren't reduced to staring
at your phone like an idiot wondering if you're being stood up or
not. You'll lose track of time and may even be a little disappointed
once she finally arrives because you were in the middle of a good
part.

For less Westernized and feminized countries you don't need this
move, so I've never done it in South America. But in the States I
do it all the time.